Employee constantly covers for lazy coworker, gets written up by boss when he stops: 'He said I used to be more helpful'

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  • Two men sit around a coffee table, with one throwing his head back.
  • I got written up for "negative attitude" after I stopped doing my lazy coworker's job for him

    I've been on this team for two years. For the last eight months, I've been quietly picking up the slack for a coworker who spends most of his day on his phone, takes two-hour lunches, and somehow still misses deadlines. I didn't mind at first. I figured management would notice eventually. They didn't. So I stopped.
  • Last month I decided I was done. If a task is assigned to him, I let it sit. If a client emails him, I forward it to him instead of answering it myself. I kept doing my own job and nothing more.
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  • Suddenly, things started slipping. Clients got frustrated. Deadlines were missed. And this week, my manager called me in and handed me a written warning for "negative attitude" and "not being a team player."
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  • The manager saw a change in his performance.

    I asked what specifically I'd done wrong. He said I "used to be more helpful" and that my "energy has changed." He never mentioned the coworker once. So apparently doing my own job well and not doing someone else's job is now a performance issue. The person who actually isn't working faces zero consequences, but I get a write-up for not covering for him anymore.
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  • I'm honestly considering just letting the whole thing burn. But I need the health insurance. Has anyone dealt with this? Do I fight the write-up or just start job hunting?
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  • A man lounges on a chair with his feet on a coffee table in front of him.
  • It was time to be on the lookout.

    softshoulder313 I would start job hunting.
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  • HK_Mercenary Never do once what you aren't willing to do repeatedly. By doing part (or all) of his job, you established a norm / pattern. So when it changed, management saw it as your performance slipping. I've had similar experiences at most jobs. You can rebut the write-up and explain
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  • where management may have mistaken the issue, but I would also suggest job hunting. If management likes that other guy, they won't take kindly to someone disrupting 'his peace.' Best of luck OP.
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  • He had stopped fulfilling his role.

    That_Ol_Cat Start job hunting. Managers who blame productive people for not doing the slacker's work aren't managers, they're drones. Drones don't produce and pretty much just hold in place. So get out of there and go somewhere a little more dynamic.
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  • LuvToDanceInTheRain I've dealt with this before & my reply was, "So & so makes x amount of money & this responsibility is on their job description. My position only pays x amount of money & it's not my responsibility.
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  • While I'm all for being a team. player, it's not fair for me to be doing their job while they sit at their desk scrolling on their phone. If you're okay with them being on their phone for hours & expect me to do their job, then pay me the additional $5/hour that they make, but double it because I'm going to have to work overtime to complete their job responsibilities on top of mine."
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  • He shouldn't have helped in the first place.

    justhereforgossiping Never cover for someone else's laziness or plain negligence.
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  • icnoevil Move on, this is a company.
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  • berrytreetrunk Why didn't you explain about your coworker? Baffles me you took the hit without explaining.
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  • His communication skills were lacking.

    TxRotor What passive aggressive BS. You should have communicated the situation to your boss and the coworker and worked a way to resolve the conflict before customer satisfaction suffered. Totally your fault.
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  • Odd Welcome7940 Start job hunting, get a solid new offer... Then, go post your whole story with your managers name and companies info every where you can. Your manager is trash and others deserve a warning.
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  • johnnny66789 Learn to open your mouth stand up for yourself. Complain and state your opinion to your boss and teach your boss and coworker to respect you and leave so they can have to lazy coworker. Compare pay along with responsibility.
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  • He learned a valuable lesson.

    Logical-Lab3661 That is how it usually ends when you start doing things for someone else. There will be gratitude, shortly after, but it will be quickly replaced by expectation it is your job. And when you eventually refuse - they will get angry. Start job hunting.
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